Hi everyone,
“There is nothing holding you back in life more than yourself.” – Brianna Wiest
I hate that this quote is true. Because it would be so much easier if we could blame external factors, wouldn’t it? The difficult partner. The unsupportive boss. The system that wasn’t built for us.
And yes – those things are real. They exist. They matter.
But here’s the uncomfortable truth I’ve watched play out hundreds of times in our community:
Maya Angelou once drank what she thought were cockroaches.
She was visiting Morocco. Her hosts offered her coffee. When she looked into the cup, she saw dark objects floating in the liquid—and to her American eyes, they looked like insects.
But her grandmother had taught her better than to insult a host’s hospitality. So she drank it. All of it.
She was violently ill for a month.
Later, she learned the truth: those were raisins—one of the most expensive and honored gifts her hosts could offer. What she had mistaken for vermin was actually profound respect.
Here’s Why This Matters to You
In the UAE, where 90% of us are expats from over 200 nationalities, cultural misunderstandings don’t just make for awkward stories. They cost us:
→ Business deals that fall apart over “small” missteps
→ Client relationships that never develop past surface level
→ Career opportunities we don’t even know we’ve lost
→ Team conflicts that seem irrational until you understand what’s really happening
You might not be drinking cockroaches, but you might be:
Missing the deeper meaning in a client’s “polite” delay
Unknowingly insulting colleagues with your directness (or your indirectness)
Losing trust because you misread what “yes” actually means
Wondering why your legal advice isn’t landing, even when you’re technically right
The Webinar: Cross-Cultural Intelligence for Legal Professionals
Join Women in Law UAE for a practical, honest conversation about navigating the most multicultural legal market in the world.
You’ll Learn:
✓ How to read what’s actually being communicated (beyond the words)
✓ Why your “professional” communication style might be undermining your credibility
✓ The real reason some of your negotiations stall (hint: it’s not the contract terms)
✓ Practical strategies for building trust across cultural divides
✓ How to recover gracefully when you do make cultural mistakes (because you will)
Here’s the Truth:
Cultural competence isn’t about never getting it wrong. Maya Angelou got it spectacularly wrong—and she was one of the most culturally aware people of her generation.
It’s about having the humility to learn, the courage to be uncomfortable, and the respect to recognize honor when it’s offered—even when you don’t immediately understand the form it takes.
In a country where your opposing counsel, your client, your judge, and your colleague might all be from different continents, this isn’t a “nice to have” skill.
It’s how you build your career.
Those weren’t cockroaches. They were honor.
Don’t miss yours.
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